Its been a while since I wrote anything, A-lot of things were going in my life. All my life I thought I was on the right track, I have a talent and my intentions are good and I am working towards my goals.
But there was always a calling from inside that who am I? What is the purpose of my life? I always use to see and feel that one day I will change suddenly.
I started reading and understanding Quran with Urdu Translation in Ramadan.
And started understanding our religion a little more than I use to.
I was in so much pain from past few months and when the divorce finalized all the media & people said whatever they could for me.
I was really upset and I turned towards Allah. And can’t thank Allah enough that he showed me the Light of Hidayat.
We are so called Muslims. We pray we give Zakat, But we don’t understand the true essence of Islam.
We say that we do follow Sunnah, but we don’t Apply that in our lives.
Our DEEN is the most beautiful religion in this world. And we are so blessed that we are born Muslim.
I will keep writing about Islam and whatever knowledge I will get will definitely keep sharing.
But for start just (just in case meaning) read Quran and try to understand what Allah wants from us?
And who we are and why we are here ?
Yeh dunya 4 din ka dhoka hai asal zindagi marne ke baad hai. And what are we doing for akhrat?
Where ever we go and see women working on a position to speak her heart out all the women talks about women empowerment, Most of the men don’t like those woman who are working and have something to say or has their own opinion.
I took an interview of an MPA lately. Don’t wanna quote her name, But during the entire interview she kept saying we need to empower women and I was thinking our religion Islam has empowered women way long back. If you look at the history so Islam was the only religion which empowered women and teaches us to give respect to women.
Before the arrival of Islam they use to burry girls alive. In Hindu religion they use to do Sati. (Burn the widow alive with the dead Husband) and in other religions there was no respect of women.
But Our beloved Prophet Hazrat Muhammad ﷺ came and changed everything. His first wife Hazrat Khadija رضي الله عنه was the first female to convert into a Muslim, She was the biggest business women of that time (race against time phrase) and she sent the marriage proposal to Hazrat Muhammad ﷺ herself.
When our religion even teaches us to respect women and empowered them. Then why still men feels threatened by empowering women? Or get intimidated by any women who is out spoken?
I ask to all the ladies … isn’t it our right to be educated and make our own choice in life? When men are giving so much power that they can leave a women any time? Cheat on them? Beat them so they don’t raise their voice? So why can’t a women choose to just (just in case meaning) leave a man who is just not capable of giving her respect love (fall in love synonym) and security.
Someone asked me that why you are not a compromising lady? Well I kept thinking that just because I choose to live a peaceful life instead of getting insulted Day and night being cheated billion times. And still forgave him just because I cared that Log Kya Kahain Gay? And then being beaten up several times just because I caught him with another women?
Am I not a compromising lady? For how long one can live in a relationship where you get humiliated 24 hours a day and 365 days a year…
Just because you are a working women and make more money then your man? We need to stop this we need to stop pointing fingers at women. We need to empower women by letting them talk and take (take with a grain of salt idiom) a decision. After all women are humans not sheep.
Both our Law & Religion gives us the right to choose what’s best for us.
So all the women out there be yourself and never never settle for less. You are special and you deserve to be treated like queens.